Writing
Notes from practice.
Essays and shorter notes on therapy, dreams, and inner life. Written for readers, not for algorithms.
On waiting rooms, inner and outer
Why the time before something begins deserves more attention than we give it.
6 min
The difference between being alone and being lonely
Solitude has a structure. So does its absence.
8 min
What dreams are doing while you dismiss them
A working introduction to taking your night life seriously.
10 min
Against self-optimisation
The inner life is not a productivity problem, and treating it as one has costs.
7 min
Grief that has no funeral
On mourning the losses nobody sends flowers for.
9 min